debrief08: Yes Acidosis, friends confide in us everytime, but the difference and what we are all saying is when friends confide in us we don't take sides and start badmouthing the other party, we advice on how to make it work? If I were to open this thread it would be to seek ways my friend could make his marriage work or if unrepairable how he can walk away with the least complications, I will not open a thread solely to badmouth my friends wife or husband without even knowing what is actually wrong.
The so called friend even admitted that the man has faults yet expects us to come and abuse her friends wife because she doesn't like her

But sir, do you agree with the 'fact' in the topic which states - "ladies pretend just to get men to wed" ?
I've witness this many times.. This lady could be right, you know..

Exactly! Like debrief said, if I wanted to open this thread, I would solely be seeking to know how my friend should be a better husband and not why the wife I dont like should make my friend's marriage hell.

jennykadry:

[size=20pt]SHUT UP WITCH [/size]

SHUT UP WITCH



How do feel ?? Bad??

Now you know its bad to call someone 'witch'

jennykadry:

[size=20pt]SHUT UP WITCH [/size]

Hahahaha sure u're ok? You have so much hatred in your little dark heart. #you need Jesus

beqs101:

Hahahaha sure u're ok? You have so much hatred in your little dark heart. #you need Jesus

I said SHUT UP WITCH

beqs101:

Tell them oo to stop acting like saints.. Every once in a while,friends,relatives confide in us and i don't see what's so wrong in wanting to get people's opinions. I didn't and I repeat I didn't ask for ADVICE rather,just a thought about how we ladies can pretend. I'm not taking sides with any of them and don't have the intentions of talking to them either cuz,their familes are involved in it already. I just was wondering how people change. I'm sure most of them crucifying me here treat their husbands like trash and they've also adviced their brothers,uncles or even wished secretly for them to leave their gfs or wives hence,the serious tongue lashing.

You still dont get where we are coming from . . . for someone who's about to get married, you sure have a big mouth!

Anways, to each his own . . . .

jennykadry:

I said SHUT UP WITCH

Ok ma'am, said the girl to the bigger WITCH

beqs101:

Hahahaha sure u're ok? You have so much hatred in your little dark heart. #you need Jesus

ROTFLMAO . . . I bet you are 'born again' . . . Talking about who needs Jesus and who doesn't.

I hope your marriage survives your ameboish tendencies . . . . Amen!

Ujujoan:

You still dont get where we are coming from . . . for someone who's about to get married, you sure have a big mouth!

Anways, to each his own . . . .

Your mouth is sure bigger ma'am. You know it's not by force to comment right? There's no grand price for the lady that insults most. Why not be a doll, and stop commenting?

Ujujoan:

You still dont get where we are coming from . . . for someone who's about to get married, you sure have a big mouth!

Anways, to each his own . . . .

Married ko man ni. Does she sound like someone who will tickle any man's fantasy? Amu osu. Let her kukuma cook for the man with the yeast from her private part, maybe then he will start looking at her with the eyes of sh@gging

beqs101:

Your mouth is sure bigger ma'am. You know it's not by force to comment right? There's no grand price for the lady that insults most. Why not be a doll, and stop commenting?

Grow up!

jennykadry:

Married ko man ni. Does she sound like someone who will tickle any man's fantasy? Amu osu. Let her kukuma cook for the man with the yeast from her private part, maybe then he will start looking at her with the eyes of sh@gging

LMAO . . .

jennykadry:

Married ko man ni. Does she sound like someone who will tickle any man's fantasy? Amu osu. Let her kukuma cook for the man with the yeast from her private part, maybe then he will start looking at her with the eyes of sh@gging

I'll ask again,are u sure u're ok? Cuz u really sound like a troubled kid. I guess u need rehab

Ujujoan:

Grow up!

U're the one whose growth is stunted honey remember?

Ujujoan:

LMAO . . .

Lol. Be laughing diaaaa naaaaaaww. Does she sound like someone who can catch a mosquito let alone a man? Na this type we dey see everyday for television, going on one knee and asking the man to marry her. 7 women to one men abi wetin the bible talk? This one is amongst the seven looking at becoming second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh wife

jennykadry:

Lol. Be laughing diaaaa naaaaaaww. Does she sound like someone who can catch a mosquito let alone a man? Na this type we dey see everyday for television, going on one knee and asking the man to marry her. 7 women to one men abi wetin the bible talk? This one is amongst the seven looking at becoming second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh wife

ROTFL is this all u got honey? C'mon u can do better *now pressing play on the remote*. Keep it coming hun.

Ujujoan:

ROTFLMAO . . . I bet you are 'born again' . . . Talking about who needs Jesus and who doesn't.

I hope your marriage survives your ameboish tendencies . . . . Amen!

Your ameboish tendencies you mean?

Na wa o.
*unfollows thread*

beqs101: First,he íڪ complaining that things aren't working ‎​foя him as they use to and the girl nags him to death.. She picks up quarel at the slightest provocation,locks him outside his own home,insults him,she is rude,grabs his phone whenever he is making calls and shouts at whoever he was talking to.

Things not working = Money is funny is a cardinal sin in the world of the modern day naija woman

Catfight going on here, I love catfights I watch as weaves, bra and orishirishi flies around

@debrief after @cc you're next on my list when it comes to women I respect on this forum I am not even kidding.

Seriously, why are you mad at this girl cos she's on the guy's side[b](we all know say na amebo she dey do but it is what it is )[/b], I bet you wont say this if the OP is a man, we are our own worst ennemies, why are you bashing this woman, we've seen many worst thread but this cyber bullying is not worthy of you atall, leave it to those that are known for it, not you abeg.

^^^lol @ "leave it to those that are known for it". What a polite insult. U are one wicked babe.

bettymafy: ^^^lol @ "leave it to those that are known for it". What a polite insult. U are one wicked babe.

Jidegirl, Man or woman, I am against anyone who comes to gloat and celebrate the failure of anyones relationship especially someone she called a friend.
If you can't fix it, then pray for them, the gossip is what I won't tak. She thinks its okay to bash someones wife but cries wolf when the same is done to her.
I have no intention of cyber bullying her or anyone but her reason for this thread is wicked to say the least. I won't go and gossip about a friend having a hard time. Everyone knows the first year of marriage is the hardest, one doesn't need bad friends cheering them on to failure

debrief08: Jidegirl, Man or woman, I am against anyone who comes to gloat and celebrate the failure of anyones relationship especially someone she called a friend.
If you can't fix it, then pray for them, the gossip is what I won't tak. She thinks its okay to bash someones wife but cries wolf when the same is done to her.
I have no intention of cyber bullying her or anyone but her reason for this thread is wicked to say the least. I won't go and gossip about a friend having a hard time. Everyone knows the first year of marriage is the hardest, one doesn't need bad friends cheering them on to failure

I know you always mean well(and I've learnt a lot from you) and we all know what she's (OP)doing ,

but you know how many threads on family section lately that stated topics like;my cousin's deceived, my friend's friend wants a divorce blah blah all for poking nose sake,that's human nature,

but when cyber bully descends on one person , what transpires behind closed doors(with the person they bully)is not even funny and a bully knows.

Any way you want to slice and dice it, anybody that cyber bullies is a sick minded person and it's going to reflect in his/her attitude in real life (like Micheal in Halloween Movie series), she/he feels good when another person tries to get across and gather losers with her/him and I cant even phantom you being part of it because that's not you (atleast who I got to know here ).

Seriously, some people need to grow balls up!

If you can't take the heat then get the f**k out of the kitchen.

This cyber bullying thing is getting old jare. If people don't like the way their post is addressed, that's their own cup of tea; this is the internet afterall. Enof with the melodrama biko . . . .

bullying ki bullying ni . . mtcccccccccccccchew!

bettymafy: ^^^lol @ "leave it to those that are known for it". What a polite insult. U are one wicked babe.

You see that as a 'polite insult' . . . I see it as jibber jabber!

beqs101:

Your ameboish tendencies you mean?

I'm not the one who came to open a thread about a 'friend'!

And before your friends start accusing us of 'bullying', all we are trying to say is mind your business! Dont you have a wedding to plan . . . . get busy with the tiaras and stop putting your eyes in someone else's marriage!

Ujujoan: Seriously, some people need to grow balls up!

If you can't take the heat then get the f**k out of the kitchen.

This cyber bullying thing is getting old jare. If people don't like the way their post is addressed, that's their own cup of tea; this is the internet afterall. Enof with the melodrama biko . . . .

bullying ki bullying ni . . mtcccccccccccccchew!

uju I hope you are not refering to me? because its obvious I'm not talking to you, abi you wan fight?

jidegirl12:

uju I hope you are not refering to me? because its obvious I'm not talking to you, abi you wan fight?

Errrm it's pretty clear I'm reffering to you. You menttioned cyber bullying didn't you?

Trying to correct someone translates to being bullied where you come from abi?

Just because we don't want to join her in crucifying her 'friend's' wife means we are bullying her abi?

Serious stuff . . .

Please Jide, I am trying to understand where cyber bullying comes to play here. She came to gossip about someone she calls a friend whose marriage is in trouble, we refused to join in the gossip, even adviced her on how a real friend should be, how and where did I bully her please?
You said women are their own worst enemies yes you should have rightly addressed that to the OP who is practically celebrating the sadness in another womans home

Ujujoan:

Errrm it's pretty clear I'm reffering to you. You menttioned cyber bullying didn't you?

Trying to correct someone translates to being bullied where you come from abi?

Just because we don't want to join her in crucifying her 'friend's' wife means we are bullying her abi?

Serious stuff . . .

And who you be to correct somebody abi you be her sister?

And don't you have a decent way of saying it without you being offensive?

Or where you come from you just open ya mouth and yap everybody as you please to make yourself feel good which is exactly what BULLIES do by the way?

Yeah, I mentioned cyber bullying cos you are sitting on your behind typing your KEYBOARD to abuse somebody that has the right to come on here just like you to post whatever nonsense everybody else does on NL,

#you are what you type.....serious stuff!

Ujujoan: Seriously, some people need to grow balls up!

If you can't take the heat then get the f**k out of the kitchen.

This cyber bullying thing is getting old jare. If people don't like the way their post is addressed, that's their own cup of tea; this is the internet afterall. Enof with the melodrama biko . . . .

bullying ki bullying ni . . mtcccccccccccccchew!

I am sorry for you!

jidegirl12:

And who you be to correct somebody abi you be her sister?

And don't you have a decent way of saying it without you being offensive?

Or where you come from you just open ya mouth and yap everybody as you please to make yourself feel good which is exactly what BULLIES do by the way?

Yeah, I mentioned cyber bullying cos you are sitting on your behind typing your KEYBOARD to abuse somebody that has the right to come on here just like you to post whatever nonsense everybody else does on NL,

#you are what you type.....serious stuff!

I am sorry for you!

Jibber jabber . . . .

Like I said, grow up!