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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Jayson1: 10:35pm On Feb 22, 2018
Keep on deceiving yourself.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Xeedorf: 10:36pm On Feb 22, 2018
It's a matter of time. Soon tied you.. Just keep make your self busz
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by nairalanduseles: 10:37pm On Feb 22, 2018
jaxxy:
Sex is overrated

i laugh u i bet u re underrated

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by kokomaster3d: 10:38pm On Feb 22, 2018
It means you are a normal human being. Anybody who doesn't think about Sex is from another planet.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by airminem(f): 10:40pm On Feb 22, 2018
Empress2014:
Life is too short to be thinking and fantasizing about sex without practical. Tomorrow may be too late. Play safe though.
You a blessed, say Amen!
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Ogonimilitant(m): 10:42pm On Feb 22, 2018
The bible tiles to cut off any part of your body that will lead you to sin
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 22, 2018
Overcame such thoughts by the blood of the lamb. It wasn't easy, but d lords mercy endureth

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nackzy: 10:43pm On Feb 22, 2018
FluidQueen:
grin Jan 2016? grin
Two fúcking years? Seriously?


These mods though!
So u can't stay 4 years without?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by otunbabrown: 10:46pm On Feb 22, 2018
The best way to avoid temptation is to fall for that which tempts u. By doing so, the devil go kuku rest. But as a good believer, u must flee.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 10:46pm On Feb 22, 2018
jaxxy:
Sex is overrated. I have been celibate b4 and it felt great. I was called funny names by my frnds like gay and stuff cos I had lots of gals as frnds for fun bt nothing was going down then. It's just takes traing and getting used to it. U will be just fine if u don't over hype it.
lets go on our celibacy journey together smiley
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 10:47pm On Feb 22, 2018
They have come again!


Prayer, Bible and Church. You for add Rosary.


Relating everything to spirituality.


Who has church, bible and prayer helped?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by vickuzzy(m): 10:48pm On Feb 22, 2018
[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=65295151] shocked


Forget your useless theory.
The only solution to your problem is having sex.

Conji is a killer.
Better still, you two can masturbate.
As long as you don't use a candle and he doesn't use a relaxer, you both will be fine.


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You can't call something that's has gotten to do with God useless my dear we careful and watch what you say
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by jaxxy(m): 10:49pm On Feb 22, 2018
nairalanduseles:


i laugh u i bet u re underrated

Don't get me wrong I just believe u shud be in control of u shit. Not the other way around. Comes down to wat u want for urself.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 10:49pm On Feb 22, 2018
Ogonimilitant:
The bible tiles to cut off any part of your body that will lead you to sin


Blood of wizkid!

Are you kidding me?


Why all of una never pray for Nigeria make he better?


Bible cutting off body part grin grin grin
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by yemmie(m): 10:51pm On Feb 22, 2018
Why Did God Slay Onan (Genesis 38:3-10)?
The story of Onan, son of Judah, occurs in Genesis 38:3-10: "So [Shua, the wife of Judah] conceived and bore a son, and [Judah] called his name Er. She conceived again and bore a son, and she called his name Onan. . . . Then Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD; and the LORD killed him. And Judah said to Onan, "Go in to your brother's wife and marry her, and raise up an heir to your brother." But Onan knew that the heir would not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in to his brother's wife, that he emitted on the ground, lest he should give an heir to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD; therefore He killed him also."

God slew Onan because the man contemptuously refused to fulfill his familial responsibility under the Old Covenant. This particular practice is called levirate marriage, in which a dead man's closest unmarried male relation (usually a younger brother, as in this case) married the widow to produce an heir for the dead man. This duty is spelled out in Deuteronomy 25:5-10 to preserve tribal inheritance rights (verse 6). Another, happier circumstance of levirate marriage is recorded in the book of Ruth, an event that eventually produced Israel's greatest king, David (Ruth 4:17).
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Ekiseme(m): 10:59pm On Feb 22, 2018
Thread of 2016? Op might've died of konji na

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by jaxxy(m): 11:02pm On Feb 22, 2018
Safiaaa:
lets go on our celibacy journey together smiley

Haha sounds tempting. I like to push myself to my limits. Celibacy gives u a beautiful mind set and a much deeper and better veiw of things. For me it's a training and appreciation thing. Or hv I just gotten tired a women's drama? Naa Lol

Why do u want to be celibate tho? smiley
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 11:05pm On Feb 22, 2018
jaxxy:


Haha sounds tempting. I like to push myself to my limits. Celibacy gives u a beautiful mind set and a much deeper and better veiw of things. For me it's a training and appreciation thing. Or hv I just gotten tired a women's drama? Naa Lol

Why do u want to be celibate tho? smiley
I was celibate for like one year until recently. But I’m going to go back to it, because l honestly agree with what you said. You see things in a different view. But it’s hard because the urge to have it becomes strong and then you start indulging in other things, if that makes sense.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by koribobo: 11:13pm On Feb 22, 2018
Stop c consuming proteinious Good
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by wisekings: 11:14pm On Feb 22, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Forget your useless theory.
The only solution to your problem is having sex.

Conji is a killer.
Better still, you two can masturbate.
As long as you don't use a candle and he doesn't use a relaxer, you both will be fine.
Can u ever be useful for once?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 11:27pm On Feb 22, 2018
She can .............. grin grin grin

Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by helphelp: 11:38pm On Feb 22, 2018
abrahambest:
Problem - I've been dating the same guy exclusively for close to a year. We both want to remain sexually pure until marriage, and we've talked very openly and honestly about our boundaries. We have a very strong relationship. We pray together, are studying a Christian book together, and are very careful not to go too far physically. The problem is, I find myself thinking about sex a lot. I know it's normal to think about sex sometimes, but I feel like I carry it to the extreme. I feel God telling me over and over to clean up my thought life, but I ignore him because I like the thoughts so much. How, in this sex-crazed society, can a person stay sexually pure? It will be several years before I get married and I don't know how I'll make it that long. Please help me keep my commitment to God and to my boyfriend.

Solution
A. The solution to your problem is simple, but it's not easy. I'm afraid there are no magic formulas. Certain mental tricks can help you some of the time, but no mind game will free you from all temptation. As you know, the only way you can hope to conquer temptation is to have God in your life. To say no to sin, day after day, time after time, you need God to be alive in your heart. Like I said, simple, but not easy.

You sound like you're doing a lot of great things to keep your faith strong. But it doesn't hurt to repeat the ways we get closer to God:

1. Prayer. We need prayer, not just at the moment of temptation, but as a steady conversation throughout the day, every day.

2. Bible. Bible study isn't about finding a few magic verses that will help us resist temptation. We need to seriously read and grow in understanding God's point of view.

3. Church. We go to church to be with God's people and to worship him together. Church is something you can't do alone. After all, the Bible doesn't call the church the body of Christ for nothing. God often reveals himself to us through our relationships with other Christians.

4. Accountability. The fellowship of other Christians is absolutely vital when you're going through a trying time. Anybody who's being tempted as you are needs a prayer partner, somebody who knows all about what's happening. You need a mature Christian friend who will support you and pray with you. You and your boyfriend may even want to get together with a married couple you trust who can help you with other aspects of your relationship as well.

You're right when you say it's normal to think about sex, especially when you're in a serious relationship. It's also normal to struggle to control sexual thoughts and urges until marriage. It's not easy, but neither is training for the Olympics or writing a great novel or raising children or making a good marriage. Good things are difficult. You're waiting for something very good—married sex. It's not easy to wait, but it is possible, with God's help.


Source: http://www.christianitytoday.com/iyf/advice/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-sex.html

cc lalasticlala

Y'all worry too much about sin.

Sin Na sin whether Na premarital sex or any other form of sin. As long as you are sinning in other matters, you still sinning...just sin the sex sin and get it over with.

Something as awesome as sex is what you are dulling on
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by jaxxy(m): 11:57pm On Feb 22, 2018
Safiaaa:
I was celibate for like one year until recently. But I’m going to go back to it, because l honestly agree with what you said. You see things in a different view. But it’s hard because the urge to have it becomes strong and then you start indulging in other things, if that makes sense.


Dats great i like people who don't just go with the bandwagon and do stuff because everyones doing it and i will admit its not as easy a walk in the park bt once u start it and keep to it for watever reasons u enjoy it and d urge fades almost completely i have to check myself like i hp I still got this. Indulging in other stuff messes it up so i don't. Its almost like a military drill. Lol
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Luukasz(m): 11:58pm On Feb 22, 2018
Empress2014:
Life is too short to be thinking and fantasizing about sex without practical. Tomorrow may be too late. Play safe though.
Walahi your toto go sweet
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by bedspread: 12:06am On Feb 23, 2018
No other Solution than JESUS CHRIST...
Come to HIM with an Open mind... Tell HIM u can't help yourself.... I know He will Help you. Send me a message let's talk
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Nobody: 12:12am On Feb 23, 2018
jaxxy:



Dats great i like people who don't just go with the bandwagon and do stuff because everyones doing it and i will admit its not as easy a walk in the park bt once u start it and keep to it for watever reasons u enjoy it and d urge fades almost completely i have to check myself like i hp I still got this. Indulging in other stuff messes it up so i don't. Its almost like a military drill. Lol
Hmm. How long have you been celibate now?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Kingsley10000: 12:25am On Feb 23, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Forget your useless theory.
The only solution to your problem is having sex.

Conji is a killer.
Better still, you two can masturbate.
As long as you don't use a candle and he doesn't use a relaxer, you both will be fine.
www.xvideos.com to meet fines babes u can bleep
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by oteneaaron(m): 12:43am On Feb 23, 2018
FluidQueen:
grin Jan 2016? grin
Two fúcking years? Seriously?


These mods though!

I tell you. OP must have gotten laid like a gizillion times since then. These mods must be reported to the BMC!!

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by FakoMaybach1: 12:47am On Feb 23, 2018
Christians are stupid sometimes, who told you sex is for marriage?
God created animals male and female and told em to multiply and fill the earth, they were having sex even before eve came cus we all know eve is the last creation

SEX WASNT MADE FOR MARRIAGE DONT FOOL YOURSELF!!

Man developed marriage to add sanity to our society, i am happy with the institution but please make una stop this false doctrine biko....face the truth

The first command or law or directive God gave living creatures were for them to multiply and fill the earth, God is wise if he wanted marriage before sex he wud have done it so (Abeg feminists pardon my use of He for God)

This is mans biggest problem since eve, we always think we know what God wants and this has led to countless wars and useless terrorism...We cant know what God wants dear man
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by purem(m): 12:48am On Feb 23, 2018
ZombieBuster:
Sex is overrated



We don't like sex over here in Okun Ajah


Neither do we like sex here in okun mopo but we do have steady light what about okun ajah
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Sex - Solution by Stevengerd(m): 5:56am On Feb 23, 2018
Akosbaba:
Erm, please what are the benefits of waiting till you marry before having sex. Medically and otherwise
Lol, Let Them be decieving themselve.

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