Two things
1. The boy is raving mad. Haba. We all passed the age of puberty. The first time I learnt about self service was wen I was 17. I remeber, a soft sell Magazine, Heart, explained it vividly. So how the boy tey know. Self servicing in public in Africa? Abeg,make una go check him brain.

2. OP might have misinterpreted his actions. If his brain was correct, OP probably called a dog a bad name! Am not sure the boy said anything when OP's advisers spoke to him. Reflex allows man to touch their shaft joor. I sometimes hold mine while am asleep. Infact, I do packaged it in my hand at times when am alone with boxer especially when am reading. A stranger can walk into my room and think am Hot and doing the abominable. Far from it! The child doesnt even know what he is been scolded for. He probably doesnt know what is marturbation. He just believed maybe touching his shaft innocently was a taboo he committed! He is not one bit attracted to u. Your mind was playing trick on you. I can assure you!. He called you mother/aunt. Now you have hanged him! Abeg spare the innocent boy. You making him feel guity for nothing especially when this is coming from a respectable aunt.

3. Sincerely, The second reasoning is the most probable. You are the one destroying the child.The child did nothing you are accusing him of! because it is unlikely the child had even been exposed to indecency o cosidering the nature of his home and parents. It is never hormone. This is not the boys we were! Guys please talk! EXCEPT the child is mad

So you had to open a new thread just to say this?

^^ I don't blame her. After reading some of the comments on the thread, I would try to get the attention of the poster through all that trash too.

Imagine some even positing that what she described(the poster in the original thread) is normal behavior for boys? On what planet? Planet Neanderthal?  It is obvious that what the boy, and others like him need is some serious psychological help and no, the usual adults will do stuff we call counselling will not cut it considering the vast majority of adults who commented believed what he did was not out of the norm. That speaks volumes on the ability of adults being able to help this boy.

We live in a society where many of our boys even believe that ra-pe is no big deal and can be used as punishment against females who do no submit to their will. Changing that mindset starts by our ensuring that this mentality is completely abolished.

I do hope the original case does not degenerate to that level of actual violation cause I fear if this boy could go this far, he could probably think ra-pe next, and it will be unfortunate if the original poster is the also a victim when it happens.

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Thank you very much. You clearly understand the situation. I dont know how child behave in the west because I havent lived with one here.But in Nigeria. This is not normal to the most mischievous of all children!

I couldnt help to clarify this notion ladies and guys here are trying to support as norm. Even exposure to indecency anywhere would not make a 13 jack off behind a pregnant aunt. ahhhhhhhhhh!

Mayflowa:

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Thank you very much. You clearly understand the situation. I dont know how child behave in the west because I havent lived with one here.But in Nigeria. This is not normal to the most mischievous of all children!

I couldnt help to clarify this notion ladies and guys here are trying to support as norm. Even exposure to indecency anywhere would not make a 13 jack off behind a pregnant aunt. ahhhhhhhhhh!

This is definitely not the norm in the West and certainly not the Norm in Nigeria either considering I grew up in that same country. I am not certain why people now think this to be normal behavior. Even back in the cavemen days, he would have been beheaded by owner of the cave for attempting such nonsense. Apparently not norm back then either.

The original poster was disrespected by the boy --- I mean in what world does a man think that to show respect for a woman, pulling down his pants is a way to show it --- and she wants to keep it quiet? In the west, that is sexual harassment and there is no excuse for such at all.

Kobojunkie:

^^ I don't blame her. After reading some of the comments on the thread, I would try to get the attention of the poster through all that trash too.

Imagine some even positing that what she described(the poster in the original thread) is normal behavior for boys?

Lol, Welcome to the family section.

@ jenny, i had to check to make sure it was the same person o . . . . Our dear kobo from the politics section.     @kobo abeg tread carefully here oh, we dont have as much crazy people as they do in the politics section! Lol. Meanwhile i agree with your line of argument, but i still think it was unnecessary to open another thread for it.

@Ujujoan

baby i've missed u so much where have u been? Lots of love